I hope you are resting well today. The surgery stinks, but for me the worst part was the 1st day of physical therapy. That was the killer, not because it hurt to move the knee, but b/c of the psychological fear I had of moving my swollen knee again. Once I did one complete revolution on the bike, I was fine, but man I was mentally messed up before I was able to do that. The mind is a mysterious thing indeed.
I'm sorry to hear that stbx hasn't asked you how you are doing. That is sad, but just another sample of how stbx lives in her world and is only concerned about herself. It hurts b/c you know you once shared love at one time, but in reality, it should go to help you to remember who you were really dealing with and why you are in a much better place now that she's gone.