He doesn't call me names or yell at me. The most frustrating part is that he won't tell me anything (I haven't asked lately). But, he thinks ANY type of discussion is a fight. I've never been interested in fighting. But, I have been interested in talking about the issues, trying counseling, trying to get information from him about what he feels. He just shuts down and says he doesn't know or isn't going to talk about it.
That's another reason pulling back from him is good for me. Trying to get info from him is exhausting and then he just ends up saying something hurtful.
Today when I got to church he sent me a text asking if DD and I would be home this afternoon. That was 3 hours ago and I haven't replied. IDK...if I should or shouldn't reply. But I feel like if he's want to be a part of our life and know what we are doing, then he should recommit to his family. Why does it matter if we are or are not going to be home? Because he wants to make time for us today?...sorry, but that's not the way it works. This is not about conveience, it's about commitment. And the last time I checked on his whereabouts he totally lied to me and intentionally deceived me so I don't feel like answering his questions. Any thoughts???
Me: 34 H: 34 DD: 3 M: 8 yrs H moved out Oct. 2008, "not happy" "don't know what I want" "will always love you, but not in love with you" PA Bomb: April 5, 2010
