You've gotten some pearls here. Don't be too quick to write them off. Re-read yours and look at other threads too...lots to be gleaned from them.
oooops. I got part way through and decided to scrap that post...only I obviously that was a fail!!
I agree A&K there has been some good advice here, especially for me.
I was also thinking about different vs. similar sitches. Many of the LBS here made mistakes in their marriages just like I did in leaving. I think thats what you were trying to communicate to me in one of your recent posts. My sitch is not that different at all. Coach will be proud
AKA: "Ben the school teacher" --- Me:45, W:41 | Ds:10,12&14 | M:18, T:20 Me: MLC+PA+WAS+Separated 10/08 My Request to Reconcile Denied 7/09 W w/OM 6/09-11/09