For those with a WAS...How do you cope?

[bluerain]

Im positive that he notices it. I think that even if he didnt, this is better for your head than having relatioship discussions and fighting.

Im also certain that when hes ready to play nice, he knows how to find you. If you do have an interaction with him where he starts to be disrespectful, tell him that you wont be talked to like that, and when hes ready to be respectful, he can try again.

Under NO circumstances, let him call you names, or yell at you. Of course, this means that you need to behave in the same way you want to be treated. Demanding this kind of respect will hopefully make you respect yourself more too!