Lots of snuggles, caresses and soft words last night. The general flirting continues.
Example: I managed to get my hair caught in the zipper for my dress such that I needed help getting free. I called H in to help me, trying to angle toward the light so he could see how I was caught.
Dia: How do you want me?
H: Lean over the bed on your elbows. Now writhe and groan a little... <as his hands are very gently releasing my hair, ending with a playful hip thrust against my rear>
Still no verbal ILYs and no repeat of the kiss on the lips, but I can be patient. Everything about his manner and interaction with me tells me he loves me and wants to be a family again, so I'm believing that and not the lack of certain words.
It's funny, but he is most open when one or both of us are on the edge of sleep. If it's me who's half asleep, I must somehow seem less intimidating that way. And if it's him who's half asleep, the barriers must come down and he becomes very tender toward me.
The trouble with having an open mind is that people put things in it.
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