There are a couple of things on the list that GIMA posted on my other thread that I think maybe were done in your R talk. I know it is soooo hard to be on your game and remember what to say and what not to say. But for you, try to be aware of #'s 3 & 11. Your conversation sounds very similiar to one of the last one's I had before I started DBing as I said pretty much the same things. Good for you on being the one to end the conversation first!
Keep up your positive changes in learning better communication skills. You said it so well when you said "the changes I am making I want to do because I want to learn a different way to treat people/communicate better." I am taking that quote with me today to help me remember that that is specifically my goal as well.
Me-34 XH-33 No Kids We were M-12Y T-15Y 5/09 Same house-separate bedrooms 01/10 I filed for D / H moved out 09/16/10 Divorced
