My Intro: Thanks for Reading!

[RedSoxFan]

RSF- Often the WAS feels that the LBS left first (emotionally etc)...as in my case, my H says I "killed our marriage."

One of the best things you can do is stop seeing yourself as LBS. You just are where you are.

I don't see myself as LBS. I use that to structure discussion around DBing technique. I definitely agree with your point the other day that this forum is more about supporting each other than DBing technique. We're not pros, we're schmos...LOL...I crack ME up!

I felt like my marriage was dead before I left. I feel like W and I both killed it over many years. I gave up. She begged me to try to save it. Then she accepted that it was over while I