T, this is exactly what my H did with my kids (except eldest). He won them over. They know deep in thier hearts that their dad is not a nice person at the moment but he is their dad and in my case he was pretty much refusing to see them unless they did as he suggested.


Me 43
XH 45
M 2.7.88
Divorce 7.10.09
Kids D20,S17 & D15