Donna,

As I read the last few posts here, I hear some strength in you that must be reflective of the struggles you have been through. Sorry your x is in la la land, and that he is with such a low life person. I know you hate that for your kids...

My x is dating a guy that seems pretty decent. The problem with that is that you then have to wonder.....is he really that much better than me, or is she on the rebound, or have they just not been together long enough to have any real problems....still in the honeymoon stage.....

Anyway, in the end, being the LBS is the more honorable place to be...tho in our society it seems that the one who gets 'dumped' seems to be thought less of....at least it seems that way to me.


Me 47, W 32,D 6,
Met 11 yrs. ago, M 7
Bomb 4/08/08, Sep. 8/10/08, Div. 8/10/09