BeingMe, I hear you too my friend, firstly there is no way no how ex will ever get any of sons money as that is all in my name and it is their for sons future, dad gave him nothing out of what he inherited so the kid as to have some from somewhere. secondly I agree big style in what your saying about ex's wifey yes she is a con artist and ex isnt the first she as done this to, I am just seeing how long she sticks it out with him now the pot is empty, I could be wrong and they could live happily ever after without money, but this isnt what lifestyle she enjoys and hopefully she will move on to the next victim, ex is her fourth marriage and she as had plenty of other victims over the time, wifey is behind each and everything that ex as done and is doing, but like we know how they change and ex is definately a changed man, not nice to see he is a complete opposite of everything he was and does things ie moneyless and getting into debt etc things he would have never ever done, and it as all gone on her, wasted, but no one can change what hes done it is just a shame to see what is coming and I think sometime soon, but who knows