My SisIL said that my H said the same thing to her, he's afraid that the changes won't last. Everything will all fall apart again if we were to go back down the road together again. ;(
My plan is to make the changes permanent as I realize that I had started implementing the same changes I'm going through now two years ago, my problem was I didn't make the changes permanent.


Me-34 XH-33 No Kids
We were M-12Y T-15Y
5/09 Same house-separate bedrooms
01/10 I filed for D / H moved out
09/16/10 Divorced