Well Nell I've decided crumbs are good enough for today. I had no expectation that H would say yes to the walk and I would have thought that once he said yes to golf with S that would have given him the excuse to opt out.

D needs to be collected from the cinema as well so just hope it won't all clash time wise.

My only plan is to ask about him and his interests and to shut up and listen. Then I think I'll have to tell him I have something else I have to do so that I leave first.