Hmm, let's see...BF declared that we were separated early December (the day after my birthday to be exact) but I didn't throw him out of the house until mid-January. It was mid-Feb when I got the "I miss you, still care for you and want to explore if we can work this out" email. And for the record, I was so pissed and disgusted when I got it. No, the affair was not over, he was living with her, which is why I refused to discuss anything personal with him. I wasn't about to let him cheat on her with me!
If you love somebody, set them free. http://tinyurl.com/2empx2g