Thought I was over this

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Do you think I may have made another mistake? Here is the sitch. Got a call from D11 last night from W cell. She wanted to ask about something. It seemed like W was using her as intermediary. W got on phone and I ask, rather directly to stop. She goes on a 10 minute wine fest about how bad she is being treated by D11. Conversation continues but I can tell she is in one of those moods.

Fast forward to today when I stop to pick up the kiddos. I find out that she was arguing again with D11 and made her go door to door in the neighborhood to apologize for yelling at her mother. D11 tells me W is always yelling at her and pushing her and poking her.

I'm not sure how much of this I should put up with. Is it abusive probably not. Is it destructive, probably.

Here is were I messed up. Called W and asked her what happened. I did not make a judgement but I did ask her why she is so unhappy all the time. She said she's not and I added well you have been for the past week. She run's down a list of all the injustices she has endure at the hands of children. Even throws in a and you were late this morning jab.

Why is she so unhappy? Thought I was the root of all eval. After all she was always telling me how happy she was when she first moved out.