This is all personal, this entire forum discussing our lives, our spouses, WAS's, emotional affairs, physical affairs, how to bring back a walk away spouse, dealing with fighting, personal turmoil, how inprove yourself in all aspects of your life.... IT'S ALL PERSONAL.
Breakaway posted something earlier stating that her husband had made an observation about her, those were her own words. It has nothing to do with being nice or fair, I stated something she had stated previously.
I have nothing against Breakaway personally, I mentioned that it's possible she has this effect on her spouse, I made an observation based on posts she makes concerning other people's comments and based on her own words, maybe it's a stretch but she seems to be a little antagonistic to some of the men posting on this forum with regards to the ideas & methods used to bring back a WAW - I have felt that at any rate. To each his own, there is no be all end all method to any of this, what works for some may not work for others. There is nothing wrong with her ideas, opinions & mindset - what is right or wrong with regards to any of this? Plus her emotions, attitudes, opinions, etc. now may be as a result of the growth & development process she went through after her EA and also in trying to deal with a spouse that isn't emotional supportive the way he should be towards her.
Plus the changes we are trying to put into effect in our own lives are not only meant to improve our lives but also improve our involvement & effect on the people in our lives.
Let it be known, I have nothing against anyone in any of these forums but just as my posts in any of these threads can read & scrutinized, breakaway and everyone can expect the same.
Hopefully this settles this, if more clarication or discussion is required on this, so be it, I'll be here to offer my 2 cents, breakaway may up the ante to $2 ;-)
(fyi - breakaway does have a sense of humor, I've seen in it on a few rare occasions)
