Rob, No one wants to feel as if they are everything to the other person. You may well think the world of them but be able to be a person that is confident and happy on their own. That goes the same for men and women. Sorry, I had a nerve touched earlier, but I honestly believe that love isn't a game of manipulation.

My ex seems to think that when it comes to our children. It is very sad to see from the side lines. Unconditional love is the ultimate and as long as you do what you do to make yourself a better person in YOUR eyes and not in anyone else's I believe you are on the right path.

kat


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Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory