It seems to me that his mother has a power hold or influence over your H's actions, but more importantly...his mind. she apparently was not too keen on son M you if she told him to do so would be committing adulty! So, it appears she was able to affect his manhood with this bit of information. I wonder if it is all due to low testostome or if it's phycological? Strange what happens when mothers interefer. Wonder what she would think about his activity now? Does the church teach what he's doing as being adultry?
It seem completely rude, selfish, and very adnormal for a groom not to be eager to ML to his bride on their wedding night. I think something more is going on here.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
