Ok, I don't know what to do now.

H has been back from the fog, and just last night initiated ML. But there's been no R talk at all, and I'm weirded out bc it's not ok with me that everything's now POOF back to normal. So I dont know how to approach things. Is it ok for me to talk R/C now or do i wait for a while to make sure it sticks?

I wanted H to ask my forgiveness for being a jerk and proclaim his undying love for me. Yeah, I know I watch too many lifetime movies. So no surprise, THAT didnt happen.

We've been here before, where things are better and I thought we were done, then we were right back to no touch no talk 6 months later. I really dont want a repeat, although I know I cant control what H does. But I do want to est and communicate my boundaries. I think.

Please help... what do I do now?


H 51/W 43
Together 24yrs/Married 19yrs
2 kids- D18 & S16
"I want out" July 2008
"I want out" Dec 2008
"I want you out" Aug 2009
Still in house thru it all