H has been back from the fog, and just last night initiated ML. But there's been no R talk at all, and I'm weirded out bc it's not ok with me that everything's now POOF back to normal. So I dont know how to approach things. Is it ok for me to talk R/C now or do i wait for a while to make sure it sticks?
I wanted H to ask my forgiveness for being a jerk and proclaim his undying love for me. Yeah, I know I watch too many lifetime movies. So no surprise, THAT didnt happen.
We've been here before, where things are better and I thought we were done, then we were right back to no touch no talk 6 months later. I really dont want a repeat, although I know I cant control what H does. But I do want to est and communicate my boundaries. I think.
Please help... what do I do now?
H 51/W 43 Together 24yrs/Married 19yrs 2 kids- D18 & S16 "I want out" July 2008 "I want out" Dec 2008 "I want you out" Aug 2009 Still in house thru it all