Originally Posted By: wanttobebetter
It is really weird how much we are alike in our situations. Mine was the same way with the social situations. It was like they were set up to fail from the beginning. If it was going good, she would always find something to harp on or would intiate something to make a big deal out if later. No win situation....and I was only trying to find a way to spend time together...


I'd be willing to bet that there is more going on with them than we realize. I think my W's mom left her with some issues.

Who knows? It's amazing how two people can see the same situations so differently.


Me: 35
W: 31
S:9
M: 10 years
Together 13
MySitch - Ups & Downs
She moved out the day before Thanksgiving 2009, over 13 months post-bomb.