Tks GIMA! She always seems to and will continue to keep testing me I'm sure.
As far as the not trusting issues, I think some of it stems from me maybe being nonchalante (sp?) about answering her in the past. She ask me if I was seeing others girls, I would just kid about it and say something to the effect of Sure, I have 15 other girlfriends. Bc to me that was a silly question and I just kind of was lighthearted and just kind of laughed about it. That is one example she has given me. She says that if I was not seeing anyone else then I would have just point blank answered the question.
She also mentions that when we were together I did not answer my phone when she called quickly enough and so she was thinking I was with another girl.
Another issue for us was that I had a house that I was refurbing and it was about 30 - 45 minutes from our place. I did spend the night there a couple of times to finish a few projects. The only way I could do it (or at least I thought so at the time).
When we were in court order counseling (for our eight sessions) she did bring out that she felt I placed repairing that house above our relationship and daughter.
Hope this helps. After talking with X, we did come up with a comprimise to let her have my D for the weekend and I get her Sun evening and bring her back Mon am.
I really feel like I kind of got the shaft on this one, but to make peace I went ahead and rolled with it. She seemed much easier to talk to after I gave in and trying to validate.
I still have yet to read the DR or DB books. Anybody know the best place to get a copy on the cheap? Money is tighter than tight. If we can place on the boards, maybe send me a private email on here.
