I must be a bit stronger though as I still haven't responded to H's text of yesterday. I don't intend to either.
When he asked "did you manage to sort out the water" it was all I could do not to reply "why are you asking - it's not like you care"...
... and there, in that one line, you see my anger, hurt and pain coming out, as it always does. It's why he gets nasty and backs right off. It allows him to behave the way he does and gives me the Platinum entry ticket for the Pity Party.
I have tried so hard to change my responses, do 180's, affirm and validate - nothing works on him. Nothing works.
WAH 43; W 47 M 16; T 17 Cats 15 & 6 Bomb 27/05/09 ow 28/06/09
"It is only on the darkest night that we see the stars"
