I've been talking about moving to L.A. for years. Now might be a good time to set my sights on things like that. Start saving and move along. Maybe not as a primary goal, but as an alternative goal. I know W wouldn't care about my feelings about it if she wanted to move.

~Mark

Me: 38
W: 34
Together: 9yrs
1st M: may '03
1st D: april '08
1st bomb: june '08
remarried: oct '08
2nd bomb: aug '09 --(W asked for D one week into 3 mo. trial separation which was meant to save our M)