Lord knows I DO NOT want to do the chasing. You should say "in general" and not lump everyone together. Putting yourself out there is hard enough without someone telling the guy to pull back so you wonder what the hell is going on. No games. Be honest and let the relationship play out naturally.
Gosh, no wonder we are all in the mess we are in when we are trying to get involved with another person.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
