Gotta Keep Trying 2

[Dia]

That's a hard hole to dig oneself out of, GIMA.

To wit:

"Hey there, Mr. GIMA. So about all of that 'I'm done' stuff I was spouting awhile back? I was completely wrong, I feel like an utter idiot and now I think you're the best thing since self-rising flour. So... yeah... things are just fine now. Um, want some cake?"

1) She may be trying to tell you by her actions that everything is ok.

2) She may be struggling with loss of face/looking like an idiot when/if she thinks about having an 'all better now' R talk.

3) She may be *afraid* that just when she opens up to the possibility that everything is ok (fear/vulnerability), BOOM - life sucks again.

Lots of possibilities here. Did you re-read the sections of the books yet? With Mrs. GIMA away, it might be the perfect time.

Edit: Been thinkin' about this for awhile now... Are you possibly struggling with some fear here? That it's safer (for you) to wait for her to make a move b/c then you don't get rejected? Is fear keeping you from moving closer yourself?