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Who wouldn't be p!ssed? Years of missing something, love tank goes empty, the pain of dropping the Bomb and leaving... then, presto, whammo! He gets it and some other sister gets the good realtionship you had to live without.

Fond as I am of you SP, I'm also proud of Mrs. SP. She's done some work, too, and she's sharing it with you even though it doesn't paint her in a great light. She's a Big Girl now.

I see her point. And even tho I wasn't the WAS, I can relate to the unfairness of someone else now experiencing the "considerate and loving" xH while I struggled for years with the narcissist. Got any insight, SP?


M60
H52
D20
M14 yrs
OW-old gf from 1986
bomb-5/18/08
H filed for D-9/10/08
D final 4/24/09
xH remarried (not OW) 2012