Well, I have to admit that until now, I was different with men. When I liked somone, I made sure they knew and played no games. But I was young... Maybe your GF has been burnt so bad (which makes me wonder how I will react to a new relationship) that she needs to process things and make choices and decisions on her own time, the main one to be vulnerable and open to you, I guess...
I hate to ask this, are you the rebound R after her break up with xH or she has had other Rs before you? xxxx K