Thanks Dia. I'm trying. Same crap a million times. I've heard it all before.
I did say that I am so sorry that she felt that's how it was. Sorry it's how she saw it. Sorry we never discussed this stuff at the time. I did try to explain what really happened in those instances. She seemed to listen, but I doubt anything got through. She's seemed to listen before.
It's SO freaking frustrating to hear about a time when we were in the middle of foreplay, she stopped to check on her GF (GF and her hubby were passed out on our couch downstairs after a halloween party) and W just left me there. She didn't come back for 3 hours! I was pi$$ed when I finally went downstairs after 3 hours(at like 4:00am). W said how I was jealous of her GF and didn't want her to have friends. WHAT? We were in the middle of something and you left 3 hours ago saying "I'll be right back!"
This was seen of course as me being controlling. Am I missing something. Am I that dense?
Me: 35 W: 31 S:9 M: 10 years Together 13 MySitch - Ups & Downs She moved out the day before Thanksgiving 2009, over 13 months post-bomb.
