I noticed that her "book mark" that was sitting on the coffee table was her divorce lawyer's business card. After feeling disrespected from last night, I really couldn't let that go. This, the real estate listings that have set out, and the printed articles about being trapped in your marriage that are on the bookshelf.
I told her how disrespectful this was. Obviously this led to R talk and I heard the same crap again. I heard about times that we went out with her friends (where she completely ditched me with strangers)and I wasn't happy about it. Therefore...I must not want her to have friends. (It couldn't have had anything to do with the fact that I went to places that I didn't want to be, with people that I didn't know, and had the balls to expect that she may well..you know...not completely fail to acknowledge my existence when we got there.) A couple other examples of the same crap and some things that I don't remember at all. It's like she was with someone else. This far into it and I'm still hearing about new things? I swear some of this crap is purely made up!
I'm sick of this same crap. Over and over. She has decided that this is how things are/were and now accepts it as the only possible truth. She never asked me what was going on with me. I have been tagged controlling and therefore if I ever did ANYTHING it must be with the goal of controlling her. AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!
She gets that "I'm not listening to a word you say, you can't make me" look on her face. I hate it!
I waited for a couple of hours to approach her and we hugged.
Where are we now? Who the hell knows?
Me: 35 W: 31 S:9 M: 10 years Together 13 MySitch - Ups & Downs She moved out the day before Thanksgiving 2009, over 13 months post-bomb.
