as we move forward II

[BeingMe]

Yes, I would be very careful, indeed. Be a distant friend, if friend at all. I think he fell for a con artist, one who sinks her/his teeth into someone, bleeds them dry (and then some) and then leaves for another victim. Your H is only now realising how much he might've bled. Protect your S. Don't let him lend/give his dad anything. He has been a fool, wasted his own father's money that he probably worked his life for, so it would be awful if he gets money from his son. (And, I think this is all the vampire OW's doing.)