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My question to all of you is how do we know that it's not just OM, jealousy or ego driving us?


What are you values, beliefs and goals that drive you?

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How do we know that there really was a chance for the marriage? or is a chance if we chose to reconcile?


Hope, Faith, Desire, Perseverance, Strength, Wisdom, Focus, Awareness, Empathy.... try a couple out.

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Can we know?


Nope

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If we can't know, what's the process for stepping through to find out?


DB

M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12
Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.