Well those are nice things to say, Mama, thank you -- you know, we can only do things the way we do 'em, and I guess this is the way I do 'em. But it's nice to be on the receiving end of nice words.
true--but there's something about the willingness to do things and to share them that deserves gratitude.
in my situation I've often been left mystified because after 18 months xH still considers himself the victim and that I am, literally, 100% at fault for the failure of the marriage. having gotten past most of the feelings, it's important for me to understand what happened in order to grow from it (and avoid making the same errors in the future). and while he is too limited to contribute to my understanding, somehow you do. I suspect I'm not the only person on the boards who could say that. so--yeah, thanks. and sometimes words are inadequate.
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012
