Sorry for the "moribund" post last night. Grief is part of this process. I have never been a game player in relationships but with my D-day looming I have been detaching more and been more mysterious ala gucci and my DB coach. My rationale for doing this is the same as what gucci described. I woke up this morning to find that H had texted me a photo of our "daughter" (my precious cat --- I got full custody of her because that was stipulated in our prenup :-) ) AND H had listed me as a friend with access to his Facebook page,..... so full disclosure of the goings on of this aspect of his social network. Interesting..... Facebook is something he and I had never ever communicated about.......so maybe the gucci approach is having some effect????
Gucci's approach may be worth a try for you if you are so inclined?????? Could it hurt at this point? It sounds as though you're detaching anyway.
