SP, I have to tell you that I am so grateful for you. Because even though your situation is quite different from my own in the vast majority of ways, your willingness and remarkable ability to dissect and share it make it possible to understand what's been going on in my own "sitch." And yeah, that's why the boards are here and all--but you are uniquely insightful and uniquelyarticulate about it. Not to mention that your writing style is (obviously) so engaging that I'm reading along and otherwise might not have noticed. Thank you.
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012