It is good to hear that you are doing well maintaining your sit. We are all going into unfamiliar territory with our spouses and it is good that we all can come to a place like this to help each other.
Don't beat yourself up about the communication with your wife. I tried to get my wife to communicate with me prior to all of this mess and it was never a priority with her to attempt to better the R. It takes 2 to make a R work and if both parties don't make it a priority then you can't fault just one. I know we all would like to go back just a short time to fix the wrongs but we can't and we all know that we can only learn from it and move on and hope for the best.
M:35 W:36 M:10 yrs T:11.5 yrs C: B7, G3 ED: 3/09 DB: 3/20/09 Served 12-8-09 Still going through the process
