There aren't many WAS's who've tried to reconcile on this forum. The DBing book doesn't really cover the topic either. Yes Coach, I feel that my situation is unique on this forum...LOL!
So in my situation I am WAS who woke up when W started a new relationship. I was very clearly having new feelings toward W and regret for the loss of my family before OM came into the picture. So now the roles are reversed, she's WAS and I'm LBS. My question to all of you is how do we know that it's not just OM, jealousy or ego driving us? How do we know that there really was a chance for the marriage? or is a chance if we chose to reconcile? Can we know? If we can't know, what's the process for stepping through to find out?
AKA: "Ben the school teacher" --- Me:45, W:41 | Ds:10,12&14 | M:18, T:20 Me: MLC+PA+WAS+Separated 10/08 My Request to Reconcile Denied 7/09 W w/OM 6/09-11/09
