Fridays marks the transfer of custody each week. My week with our S's ended yesterday morning, while the ex's began after they got home from school.
Yesterday also marked the end of the school term for S8. He is now tracked-out for the next three weeks. So xW is taking them out of town on vacation, to Myrtle Beach. I hope they, my S's, have a good time if the weather holds up. But I am concerned now because I am certain that the OM is going along (S8 has assured me that his mother is including him.) What I am most concerned with is if xW plans on OM sleeping in the same room with them -- that would be a direct violation of our Parenting Agreement and consent order.
I would hope she would have enough common sense and enough decency to have separate rooms at the hotel. But I suspect that xW is brash enough to violate our legal agreement, to cast caution to the wind. Heck, she doesn't give a rat's petard for the sanctity of M, so why would she care about honoring any other legal agreement made with me?
I don't want my kids exposed to that, their indiscretions. I am tempted to take measures to get evidence of their violation of the signed consent order. But I am too broke to do anything about it.