Thanks GIMA! I guess we are learning along the way. Recommit to not disagreeing and try to do a better job of validating. How do you agree when someone is being selfish about keeping your child away from you. Esp when it is in the court order to have her. I do want to take the higher ground and agree with her, but I feel like I may never see my D if I do that.
MA Holm. It would be nice if we could all attend the party, but that will not happen. The party is her friends who support her in her quest to separate from each other. She has mentioned previously (when we first separated) that if we did try to get back together they would be upset with her. Crazy.
I will try to be more flexible, but again how do you do it and try to follow the court order at the same time? The X has tried to cut me out of Ds life and make it as difficult as possible to visit and spend time with the D.
