Had a chat this morning about things and it's good that she is thinking about it and willing to work on it. She said that she wants it to be different, for me and for her. What I mean is that she wants it to be better so that I'm happier and so that she enjoys it too.

She said that the problem is she just doesn't feel anything. She said it's like someone stroking your arm. She just doesn't get going. Fair enough I guess but I would just quite like a button that I could push that would get her going... if only life was that simple!