Fantastic news, Oz. I really hope he's returning from the land of the aliens.

Did you talk about your feelings about him leaving every weekend, acting like a schoolboy?

Any chance he'd be willing to go to MC? A MC can help you guys learn how to communicate better so that things don't get bottled up. That's essential IMHO. One of the best outcomes of all of this for H and me has been our absolute honesty about things with each other as we go along. There's no chance for bottling things up anymore because it's all out in the open.

Keeping my fingers crossed....

SD

Me: 40
H: 43
H had EA from 2/06-9/06
Bomb 5/06
Piecing since 9/2006
3/2008: Boundary setting
7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb.
8/2010: Marriage finally on track!