Just have a quick one to note, on speaking to ex's old aunt this week she is very very disgusted with ex's behaviour, but we know we cannot change that, however during the conversation, and something I didnt comment back on was, she was saying how she couldnt understand where all the money ex got left by his dads estate has gone, other things were mentioned but one that she said was the amount ex still owes on the mortgage that he pays on our old home, she disclosed not intentionally the amount, I know what was owing on the place when ex left and also when I left, I know from what she is saying that he as borrowed money on the house and he now owes more back to the bank than what he borrowed some 23 years ago, oh dear me what a mess he is in financially, the old place if it doesnt sell is supposed to be his own paid off thing in 18 months, I dont think no way no how is he going to pay off what he owes in that time, whether he finds work or not it is an impossibility and especially as he as the mortgage to pay with him and wifey as well, poor man dont know where he as got himself, but it is true about the mlc running debt up, this man never had debt and would never get into financial trouble the only debt he had with me was the mortgage, poor poor man. what a mess hes in, but at the end of the day not my problem, i will remain a freind
