I will look at Lost's thread and see if I can find it- thank you. Actually, I do not expect him to make any promises to change, to try to talk me out of it, or get violent- not to say he won't be angry and upset. I think it is far more likely that he will help me out the door- and make sure I take as little as possible.
Since we will have to split our kids time, he is going to have to know where I'm at or how to contact me, right? I don't see a way around that.
I'm calling my cousin this weekend and telling him and his wife the current status, and to see what his availability is this month. I'm glad he's here- he's like a little brother. (My actual bro is in Houston- way too far away) I don't think I'm telling my parents until the last minute so Mom doesn't freak out, and I don't want Dad lifting anything.
The whole situation feels wrong and I'm not sure why. I'm certainly aware of the cr@p he pulls on me.
