It's too hard sometimes

[mindfull]

Hi:

I saw your original threads. Mind if I chime in here???

I think you said that your W had two D's (4 and 1) when you either met or were married. Do you have any other children together?

I ask, because, your threads expose a great deal of in and out, Divorce, no stay together, move out, move in, etc... Those kids have to be so confused! How about using this time to really make a conscious effort to give the kids some stable presence in their lives?

I think I saw you have a D13 (the then 4 year old?)... I have a D18, and let me tell you, you will need ALL of the stability, good karma, patience, strength and honor to deal with teenage D's!

Lead your family by becoming a stable, drama free, consciously in charge Dad, first.

Let me tell you this, from a Mom... that's hot.