Thanks for the 2X4s Rob and OT... I have started reading the book over. BUT………….
I must be doing something right... Today my W was going out to lunch with two of her GF. I sold some wood and when I got home W was folding clothes. I gave her a 20 and said if was for her lunch. She said thanks... Then later………………. As she was leaving we were standing in the family room and I went to give her a good bye kiss and SHE GAVE ME A HUG…. all on her own. I hugged her back and said have a great time. Later I noticed she had put her wedding ring back on. She has not worn them in over a month. Now she did wear them all the time because she says they are small and hurt her fingers but in the past she at least put them on when she went out. Well for the last month she did not even put them on when she went out….. Today I meet up with another high school buddy that lives in town that I have not seen in about a year. When I got home dinner was ready and I told wife I don’t think she realizes how lucky she is. How one of my buddies is basically an alcoholic and the one I saw today look pregnant with his beer belly. Then I said “but I guess I am lucky too”. After dinner I went to give her a after dinner kisses AND again she hugged me...
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know