Trying to cope with H, IA/EA (was Newbie-1st post)

[Faith2010]

H either hides his phone or keeps in on him at all times. H erases all messages. H continues to think I am 'spying' on him and maintains "OW" is just a friend. I have asked to see his phone before, he will not let me.

I didn't need to see the phone to know who he contacted. I could tell by his reaction to me. Around that time he began to backtrack a bit and I knew they were contacting each other more.

This is precisely why there is an October 1st deadline. There are no boundaries to set in reference to OW. It's all or nothing.