The similarities in our sitchs is uncanny. I've often waited "for the other shoe to drop."
IMO...keep doing what you're doing. Don't worry about the R talk. I know it's hard (at least it is for me...I like to know where my M stands) but when it comes down to it, words are just words. Actions mean so much more. Enjoy your time with him and make the most of it. Have fun. Be the person he first fell in love with.
Me: 39 H: 39 S: 15 M: 18 years Bomb: 6/3/09 H moved out: 10/15/09 H moved back:5/30/10
