I told her I just try to be a better me and do the best I can to understand where she is and be supportive of her and D.
Don't TELL her what you are doing or are going to do. You have to live your changes. And, what you did was not validating, it was disagreeing with her. That will not go anywhere positive.
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I try to take the higher ground, but I feel like I will always be the one having to do that. Not her. Will she ever say I'm sorry? Will she ever try to be polite? Will she ever try to do something remotely nice?
You WILL have to be the one to take the higher ground and do all the work until she wants to trust you again (remember it's her PERCEPTION, not reality, that's important).
And her saying "sorry" isn't the goal. Improving yourself to make you more attractive to her is the goal.
