We ended up having a nice little family evening for a bit. S, W and I sitting around the backyard firepit. It was nice. I started the fire and W came out all on her own and sat next to me.
A little while later, the phone rang and she ran inside. Spent quite a while in there. Came out and....it was her BFF GF of course. The one who has taken the place of the OM in our relationship. W doesn't get that GF is the OM. And guess what, GF just got her realestate license! Yep..SHE's W's realtor.
W WENT INSIDE FROM OUR FAMILY EVENING TOGETHER AFTER HUGGING AND KISSING ON ME TO DEAL WITH HER NEW HOUSE SITUATION!
I set a boundary. I told her that I felt this was very disrespectful. (I also said, freaking great. You wonder why I have an issue with your GF, see her as the OM? And now you have her looking for houses for you?)
She went off, but I stood my ground. This is just too much of a slap in the face to me.
How in the hell can people flip it on and off like this? If I hadn't said anything was she just going to come back and hang out like all was normal? WTF?
Me: 35 W: 31 S:9 M: 10 years Together 13 MySitch - Ups & Downs She moved out the day before Thanksgiving 2009, over 13 months post-bomb.
