Nope, H has never said that. Tho from what I gather, some people want a firm ending before beginning anew. For me, 2 yrs separation was enough of an ending, though I can certainly identify and agree with the folks who say that we never got closure.

I just happened to realize that I didn't *want* that particular type of closure while there was still time enough to do something about it.


The trouble with having an open mind is that people put things in it.

My sitch - Divorce Busted!
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