I don't like the fact that you've not heard from him. This is out of character and you should be on your guard. Not trying to scare you, but the man is pure evil.
Promises, promises and more promises..just to make himself look good in your children's eyes. As for your daughter, I'm concerned about her...but she too, will see the light when the good Lord is ready for her to remove the rose colored glasses.
Please take care of yourself.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
