Trying to cope with H, IA/EA (was Newbie-1st post)

[mishka422]

Ashlee,

Do you know for sure that he contacted OW? It doesn't look like you do. You need to set boundaries. A cheater has to have checks and balances in place.

Set conditions by which you are willing to live.

He has to give you phone company access.

He must show you his phone whenever you ask (unfortunately they tend to erase their entire inbox all the time)

He must account for ALL of his time.

Stuff like that.

You must be willing to set boundaries before you can expect him to follow them. They can't be in your head.